by Alan Jimz - Real Estate Broker 
When it comes to dating apps, we all want to find love and companionship ā¤ļø, but the truth is, there are some dangerous people out there š. As a woman, I know firsthand how scary it can be to put yourself out there, especially in the age of online dating š±. Wendy Duan’s tragic story is a painful reminder of the risks that come with using dating apps.
Wendy was just like any one of us; she wanted to find someone to share her life with š. But after meeting Charvas Thompson on a dating app, her life was cut short following an argument in her own home š¢. As a woman, a daughter, and a sister, my heart aches for Wendy’s family and friends š. The pain of losing someone you love so suddenly is unimaginable.
But there are things we can do to protect ourselves when using dating apps š”ļø. We need to be cautious, take our time, and trust our instincts š. It’s important to do our research š, meet in public places šļø, and let someone we trust know where we’re going š. And if we feel uncomfortable or unsure about something, we need to speak up and end the conversation š£ļø.
As women, we need to look out for each other and support one another in our search for love šŖ. It’s not easy, but we can’t let fear hold us back from finding happiness š. Let’s honor Wendy’s memory by being vigilant and taking steps to stay safe when using dating apps š.
As women, we need to look out for ourselves and be extra cautious when it comes to online dating.
Here are some tips to help you stay safe:
š Do your research: Before meeting someone in person, take the time to learn more about them online. Check their social media profiles, do a Google search, and read through their dating app profile carefully.
š« Don’t share too much personal information: Protect your privacy by avoiding giving out your home address, phone number, or other sensitive information too soon. Stick to using the dating app’s messaging system until you feel comfortable sharing your contact information.
šļø Meet in a public place: For your safety, choose a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant when meeting someone for the first time. Avoid going to their home or inviting them to yours until you have built trust and feel comfortable.
š„ Tell a friend or family member: Always let someone you trust know where you’re going and who you’re meeting. You can also share your location with them via your phone.
š Trust your instincts: If something doesn’t feel right, trust your gut and end the date or conversation. Don’t feel obligated to stay or continue communicating with someone who makes you uncomfortable.
š¹ Video chat before meeting: Consider having a video chat before meeting in person to get a better sense of the person and ensure they are who they claim to be.
Remember, staying safe on dating apps is all about being cautious, taking your time, and trusting your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about something, don’t hesitate to speak up or end the conversation. Your safety is important, and it’s always better to be safe than sorry.
